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Apr 30, 2024

31 Products Anyone Who Loves Penis

We hope you love our recommendations! Some may have been sent as samples, but all were independently selected by our editors. Just FYI, BuzzFeed collects a share of sales and/or other compensation

We hope you love our recommendations! Some may have been sent as samples, but all were independently selected by our editors. Just FYI, BuzzFeed collects a share of sales and/or other compensation from the links on this page.

Sex pillows, lube, vibrators, dildos, and more — if you love PIV sex, then you will definitely be adding at least one of these products to your cart.

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This wedge-shaped pillow is designed with a machine-washable cotton cover and water-resistant lining in case things get a little messy. A handle on each side offers support no matter your favorite position.

Promising reviews: "Everything it’s promised to be and more! Also can be used as a yoga cushion prop! Such a win-win!!" —Jeannie Z.

"The angle was incredible for both of us. My wife had never experienced a G-spot and clit orgasm at the same time, ever! Also she didn’t want to stop! It is a bit firm, but we feel that lends to the pleasure. We have had other pillows in the past, but way too bulky and big. This is priced right too." —Kerry D.

Get it from Dame for $95.

The silicone ring stretches to fit a variety of penises (or dildos), and the vibrator has five speeds and patterns for up to 25 varying intensities.

Promising review: "This is a great addition to solo or couples' play. The ring is super stretchy and can fit around any of our toys. Loved when she was on top. She was able to grind on it without having to hold a heavy vibrator. Super quick and easy to clean and charges quickly! It's pretty quiet considering how intense the vibration can be." —Howard Martin

Get it from Amazon for $39.99.

At 7.5 inches long, this bulbous beauty steps into the ring and offers 2 pounds of weight for the full feeling your other toys might be missing. You can pop this metal toy in the fridge and let it chill, so you can really treat yourself, if you know what I mean.

Promising review: "Product will make your partner squirt. I would recommend pairing this with a magic wand as well. Problem my girlfriend and I encountered is it’s actually too intense for her, and now she requires to be tied up, so I had to make a follow-up trip to Home Depot. Solid rating at 5/5, will spice up your intimacy time." —M. Allen

Get it from Amazon for $69.

This rabbit vibrator weighs in at 10 inches long with an insertable length of 5.5 inches and soft, silky, body-safe silicone that's submersible, offering thrilling rumbles as you play. If Christian Grey had a penis that did all of these things, could you really blame Anastasia for falling for him?

Promising review: "My friend told me to buy this and that she orgasms in 40 seconds. I didn’t believe her, first time trying this I left a big wet patch on my grey sheets. I’m not even a huge toy fan, but this has me wanting to use it every night! I love it!!" —Cookie

"I don’t think I was prepared for how amazing this actually is. You can orgasm in seconds if you’re not careful. The vibrations feel amazing. My husband and I love using this, especially when he’s in my ass. There are literally no words, you’ll be seeing stars." —LaLaa

Get it from Lovehoney for $99.99 or Amazon for $69.10.

Check out these other rabbit and dual-stimulating vibrators if you're in the market!

This harness also has internal pockets in case you want to place a bullet vibrator for added pleasure.

Promising reviews: "This is definitely worth the price. It has great variety in the sizing for the wearer. You can use a vibrating dildo with it and you feel the stimulation. Also there are pockets you can add items to for your stimulation. The ring is very hard to get the dildo into, but it works out because it does not come out during use. The comfort to the wearer is phenomenal. Recommend for any experience user." —Customer DBG

"I was so exhausted one night after my partner and I had some fun, that I fell asleep with it on and forgot it was still there. It’s extremely comfortable but super sturdy. Also, very easy to throw it in the mesh bag it comes in and toss it in the laundry. I let it air dry though. Great product!" —divertida9

Get it from Amazon for $134.95 (available in two sizes and three colors).

The one pictured on the left has a lot of reviews and is the D3 Summer Fling dildo ($61.99 on Amazon), boasting an 8" length (7" insertable) and 1.75" width. There are five various dildos in the line, each one with a different length and girth, so you literally can't go wrong. If you want more specifics on why I think these dildos are so perfect, check out my review on the Purple Rain D2 Avant dildo.

Here are the specific widths of the dildos in this collection: D1 Hot 'N' Cool (1.5 inches), D4 Sexy in Pink (1.5 inches), D5 Sin City (1.75 inches), D6 Electra (1.75 inches), D2 (1.5 inches).

Promising reviews: "I love sex toys, this one is the newest one in my collection. This brand makes the most soft and sensational sex toys that I've ever used. The feel is wonderful to the skin, and if you're looking for something more on the bigger side, this is the right one for you. I generally prefer dildos with a more narrow head, so if you're like me, you may have a hard time (pun intended) getting this one in, but I took on the challenge. I just had to get very lubricated and extra turned on in order to fit this big boy, but in the end, I had that feeling of fullness that I was looking for accompanied by the amazing texture from the toy and ended up coming super hard and feeling completely satisfied. Highly recommend for that lonely weekend or with some fun with your partner. :)" —Satisfied customer (on Summer Fling)

"Yes, it’s a little big. But it feels amazing and smooth. Anal has been nothing but great." —D. Cookie

Get it from Amazon for $58.99+ (available in assorted colors and sizes).

Oh, and if ball-slapping is not your thing — it also functions as a cock ring.

Promising review: "I feel like I’ve been missing out my entire adult life before this thing. Not only do they hang and swing in a pleasing way (which is nice for my identity as a trans man) but when I’m intimately with someone they create a new level of sensation that has led to some very exciting results. The design is complete genius. Thanks NYTC!" —Griff

"I love these so much I bought a second pair because my partners have all said they love how these feel slapping against them. Also great to flip upside down with the rechargeable bullet vibe for extra stimulation during missionary positions." —Hans Von Straphon

Get it from New York Toy Collective for $49.99 (available in four fleshtones and four colors).

If you want more toys that aren't too phallic or realistic, check out this round-up of gender-affirming sex toys and sex toys beloved by LGBTQ+ reviewers!

You can even contort it into a makeshift cock ring, so there's a way to use this toy no matter what your anatomy!

Promising reviews: "The single best sex toy for couples — women AND men. Regardless of whether you’re cradling your testicles with it or using it to bring your G-spot to new heights this gets into all of the fun-to-reach places." —Jordan

"My Crescendo made me feel whole again. The creativity of the app helps me personalize the vibrations and makes every solo pleasure session is completely different! Six months in and I am still discovering new ways to orgasm. Thank you, MysteryVibe." —Heather

Get it from MysteryVibe for $199 (originally $249).

Promising review: "I was so nervous about trying Eva due to the design and diagrams provided on the website. When I saw there were free returns, I decided, 'Why not?' When Eva arrived, the instructions recommended I try it out without a partner first, so I did, apprehensively. My mind was BLOWN. Not only does Eva make my personal orgasms so much better (and I get to them much quicker), but it has also made reaching simultaneous climax a lot easier to achieve with my husband. I love love love Eva, and can’t recommend this product enough! Even if you are nervous, trust me — you want to try it out." —Louisa C.

Get it from Dame for $140 (available in orange and ice) or Amazon for $145 (available in four colors).

Promising reviews: "Tried this on a whim. It was my partner's first time trying a toy like this and he was skeptical at first but really enjoyed the experience :) 5 stars! Easy to use, easy to clean, definitely satisfactory ;)" —K

"Seem to have any downsides, it feels amazing to use, either by yourself or with a partner. The build quality on this is excellent, and due to both ends being removable it's extremely easy to clean up afterwards. Being able to unscrew/switch off the top to add extra pressure is great and has led to some of the strongest orgasms I've had." —Mikae

Get it from Amazon for $26.89+ (available in five colors).

This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25" W.

Promising reviews: "I will never not use this thing. It is soooo soft. feels so nice AND hits that sweet spot every single time. My girl and I love it. 🥇🥇🥇" —Brie Sews

"Pegging is an amazingly sensual act, this ups that immensely and allows me to put pressure on my clit and take in all the pleasures (sights, sounds and feels)." —Ponch

Get it from Amazon for $36 (available in four colors).

It's a ramp! It's an ottoman! It's improving your sex life! This convertible cushion is created with high-density foam for comfortable support and a moisture-resistant lining underneath the removable cover. Flip the furthest side of the ramp on top for a versatile block shape or use the classic ramp shape to help find the right positions for superior stimulation alone or with a partner.

Promising reviews: "Awesome product. The flip capability opens up possibilities. The Liberator website has some suggestions of use, but with some creativity there are many others. This paired with the Wedge and Axis have had plenty of fun results. Highly recommend. Does clean very easy. The cloth outside does attract dog hair, but vacuums off easily enough." —J.B.

"Great addition to add some spice. Fabric is soft and soft stuff gets stuck to it easily. Thank goodness the cover comes off so you can wash it." —jen bardsley

Get it from Amazon $179.99 (available in four colors).

And definitely check out this round-up for more sex furniture!

This unique sex toy is available in nine different textures, so you can pick whatever you think will get you off best! It's made of premium silicone, so the ring will stretch around your favorite penis or dildo without worry.

Promising reviews: "This was exactly as expected. It matched the dildo I bought at the same time. As expected, it was very squishy. The ring very easily stretches, I could probably put it around my wrist comfortably. The waves are enjoyable. I prefer a lot of stimulation, so this was a bit dull against a pillow. It was much better with a firm surface underneath, so I expect on a partner it would be nice." —Kilia

"Love this!!! With this toy I’m able to control the amount of stimulation that I get perfectly! Vibrators and most clitoral stimulators are too focused and therefore overwhelming, so the size of this toy makes for really satisfying stimulation. It’s great for putting on my partner's thigh to grind against — our make out sessions just got a lot more interesting. My new favorite toy! 💖" —cj

Get it from Godemiche for $48.54+ (only bubble texture available) or Godemiche on Etsy for $61.60+ (available in nine styles and three custom color options).

Godemiche is a UK-based, family-owned small business that specializes in vibrant handcrafted sex toys and BDSM products.

The OG Magic Wand is also formerly known as the Hitachi, just to avoid confusion. Also available in Rechargeable (cordless version with multiple speeds) and Mini (a travel-friendly, cordless version).

Promising reviews: "I’m a longtime vibe user for almost 20 years and I have no idea why I never bought this sooner. I guess I was originally turned off by the cord and wanted waterproof, but I rarely ever use one in the tub or shower so I decided to give it a try. And look, I can orgasm fairly easily, back to back. But this thing takes orgasms to another LEVEL. Seriously not kidding. Don’t rush it, try some edging... You won’t regret this purchase at all. Stop reading reviews and just buy it!" —Mila

"Best vibrator I’ve ever owned! I never thought I’d be able to achieve such orgasms in my life! And then I bought this!!! The orgasms never stop with this massager! It’s phenomenal! Only takes a few minutes and I’m in outer space!" —Amazon Customer

Get it from Amazon for $58.99+ (available in four styles).

Here's even more wand vibrators if you're in the market, right now!

There are seven patterns in the shaft and seven intensities in the external arm, not to mention this toy is waterproof and versatile (aka, yes, you can get in a different position and get a rim job if you want).

Promising reviews: "My new favorite! It vibrates on both ends and you can change the settings so they both vibrate at different times. Long battery life. 10/10 recommend." —Danielle L.

"Love it! Super soft to the touch. Gets the job done as you like it. Many different options as the rotator and licker can be on separately and reach having several setting. Feels great and relieves stress! The licker makes almost no noise. The rotator however is a little louder... the rotator's not very discreet. Love that it is waterproof as well since I love a hot soak in the bubble bath!!" —Candance S.

Get it from Honey Play Box for $59.99 (originally $79.99 and available in three colors).

Honey Play Box is a sexual wellness company in California run by a group of sex educators and self-proclaimed lesbian meme queens who are passionate about all things pleasure being positive, inclusive and accessible.

These cotton-blend boxers are double layered for dependable support and can accommodate dildos with a 1.5-inch O-ring diameter on the base. Two interior pockets for bullet vibrators are strategically placed around the O-ring to add a little more rumble. Check out the site for more colors and prints!

Promising review: "Rodeoh boxers are possibly one of the best inventions for a lesbian couple. They are just 'normal' high quality boxers that my wife wears under normal clothing and within seconds we can be 'playing!' None of the faffing about with silly harnesses, it’s just simply put on and put in!" —S&V

"I am a bisexual female, and my boyfriend happens to be a bisexual male. Rodeoh opened a whole new world for us. Strap-ons have been very awkward and uncomfortable for me, which took away from the experience. This morning we were finally able to make love in an entirely new way. I feel in love with my sexy bottom boy all over again, and then all we had to do was slide them on and start round two. Thank you so much for such an awesome product!" —Carmen

Get the banana print from Rodeoh for $49.99 (available in sizes L–3X).

Rodeoh is a woman-operated small business based in San Francisco that designs and curates inclusive and gender-affirming sexual wellness products.

This waterproof ring includes a custom fit link for adjusting the size (35 mm without) and has 10 preset vibration settings to explore. But definitely download the We-Connect App, so you can have an unlimited amount of vibes to play with!

Promising reviews: "I got this for my bf who never tried a ring before and he loved it. He wears it a lot in bed and we also tried it in public once it was really fun. He can also put this around his fingers when he's fingering me which is basically a mini vibrator that I don't have to hold." —Haley

"It's very comfortable and would fit a lot of different penis sizes. Not only great to wear yourself but it takes finger play to the next level too!" —Brandon

Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $129.

Promising review: "Velvet has a great reputation with soft feeling sex toys and this one lives up to that reputation. I was skeptical about this toy at first because of the curvature/hook look, however I realized how easy it was for it to hit my G spot. And WOW. I didn't have to angle the toy as much as my other ones to get this to hit my G-spot and it was great. Plus, with its fast setting of its strokes, it felt great. Going to be my new go-to toy whenever I want instant pleasure." —Bree

Get it from Velvet Co. Thruster for $182 (available in four colors).

This unique wearable is designed to help people manage pain and customize penetration depth (depending on the number of rings worn) without sacrificing sensation.

Promising review: "I bought these because my wife looked into them and thought they'd be a good idea to make sex a little bit better for her and hopefully still as good for me. Thankfully after purchasing and trying them out, I can say they are worth every penny! My wife is more satisfied and happier to have sex, and I still feel amazing as well. The Ohnuts don't take any longer to put on than a condom if you stack them prior (stack them prior...it's awkward stacking while they're on), and they give you the feeling of deeply penetrating without hurting your spouse, who can now focus on enjoying sex instead of embracing pain. They are also really easy to clean and come with a small cloth bag to place them in if you don't want to have side conversations about Ohnuts, which is entirely up to you. Overall, I 100% would recommend." —Q.D.

Get it from Ohnut for $75.

Ohnut Co. is a woman-founded and small business wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.

TBH, this might be the squishiest toy I've ever handled. It's elegantly curved and kinda looks like a vagina, so all you have to do is fold and insert. It's designed to help enhance clitoral sensation, deliver deeper internal stimulation, and it even has a slightly flared base for discreet wear and effortless retrieval. Also, it comes in a variety of thicknesses, so you can choose whatever's most comfy for you and deliver that full feeling you've been craving.

Note: These plugs are intended for vaginal use only and not recommended for anal. Check out the following link in case you want to explore anal toys created with the same squishy silicone (these have a flared base for safety).

Promising reviews: "I just bought this along with the Tango X after getting tired of my rabbit vibe being too uncomfortable to sit with between orgasms. I'm 30, never been sexually active with a partner for various reasons and sex toys are something I've only recently begun to appreciate as I become more comfortable with intimacy and learn my own body before trying to share it with others. So I'd classify myself as a beginner and for that, this plug is amazing. I'm not able to handle anything large but the softness of this silicone is no joke — even the small was kind of daunting to me but it just popped right in, and I can barely feel it when I'm not playing — the most noticeable part is definitely the base, and even then it's not uncomfortably noticeable. This acts as a major upgrade to clitoral orgasms for me, it's like blended orgasms without all the effort and buildup that those normally take. And it's a lot of fun on its own, too!" —Kat

"I find myself very surprised, in a good way. This toy has impressed me so much that I had to leave a review, which I have never done on this site! It’s a great little thing to leave in for an hour or so and tease yourself, before some actual fucking. I used the size small, since too big can be a bit painful for me. It also stretched me out a bit so I probably would have been comfortable taking a size that normally would be too big for me. Left me dripping wet. Excellent on all fronts!" —Lesbian

Get it from Peepshow Toys for $42+ (available in four sizes and four colors).

It thrusts and vibrates, combining the best parts of a clitoral stimulator, rabbit vibrator, and G-spot toy all in one, with two individually controlled motors that both have five vibration speeds and five modes for limitless combinations. TBH, I'm still not exactly sure how to describe this toy but it looks...awesome, and you should definitely try it out and then leave a review.

Promising review: "This thing is a dream. I was intimidated by it because it looks crazy, but it's super pliable and the silicone is the best texture. It works exactly as advertised. I love that the two vibrating areas are individually controllable because if you want to get done quick, you can use both, but if you want to stretch the whole event out, you can set the internal part to vibrate and just use the pressure of the external part. I own a lot of toys, and this one has become a fast favorite." —Wally

Get it from Babeland for $150 or Amazon for $129.99+ (available in pink and purple).

If this one surprised you, don't miss this round-up of weird sex toys that work really well.

This multifunctional ring is 1.57 inches in diameter.

Promising review: "First one I have owned. It is comfortable and stretches nicely and still gets its job done. As someone who is above-average girth, I find it still felt comfortable without any pinching feeling. Having the three openings does make it feel better than others I have tried, IMO. It cleaned up real easy, too." —I Henschel

Get it from Amazon for $8.99+ (available in four colors).

This vibe offers eight fully customizable vibration modes and app-connectivity if you're interested in long-distance or remote play. It also heats to 107 degrees F for a unique sensation!

Promising reviews: "It took me little while how to use it properly but after reading instruction everything was super easy. The pulse wave technology feels amazing. The wide base keeps massager inserted just enough to hold in place. Perfect G-spot hands free massage." —J.K.

"This is the best G-spot toy I have ever used! It hits your G-spot like a pro and it delivers an amazing orgasm. This is my love love toy. Well done Zalo for thinking about a woman's body. FIRE!" —Marney

Get it from Zalo or Amazon for $149 (available in three colors).

The internal arm has a rumbly thrusting motion with five intensity and five speed settings. The external arm boasts seven vibration intensities and five speed settings. Each can be controlled by its own individual button. And of course, in true Unbound fashion, this vibe is waterproof.

I've never had a thrusting toy before, but one of my besties raves about hers. And of course, rabbit vibrators can be difficult to line up with your anatomy and not a one-size-fits-all option. But Unbound is all about making sure their toys are accessible for both able-bodied and disabled users, so Clutch has a lot more flexibility to play with than other rabbits. Now, I love dual stimulation, but for me, the thrusting function is the best part of this toy. Chef's kiss, spot on stimulation — I definitely explore the different thrusting modes more than I do the external arm, they are that good. The clitoral stim is great too, typical vibrating settings, but I've found that it doesn't apply a lot of pressure without some manual help (because not all rabbits are perfect). But once I have it lined up, it's off to a whole new world for me. Make sure to pair it with lube, of course.

Promising review: "I have a few other rabbit-style vibrators and expected this to feel much the same. Well, I was wrong. It is a completely different feel and awesome addition to my collection! The vibrations and waves are unlike anything else that I have and great for switching things up!" —Taylor R.

Get it from Unbound or Amazon for $98 (available in mint/sea and quartz/coral).

No, the Fleshlight is not included. But this positioning pillow is specifically designed for Fleshlight users who want to explore missionary position solo. If you're into doggy style, don't worry because there's a pillow for that! The faux-leather design offers a sleek look and easy cleanup afterward.

Promising review: "Absolutely love this mount. Perfect size and holds you well. Easy cleanup after use. My wife and I use this to compliment a pegging session. It's absolutely amazing. To be inside a toy while my wife pegs me is a great experience and this mount is perfect for that." —BMW

Get it from Liberator for $190 or Amazon for $139.99.

This special-edition sex machine set includes the riding sex machine, two interchangeable attachments (one for penetrative stimulation and one for external stim), a detachable rainbow tail flogger, a corded LED remote control, and an easy-to-clean liquid proof mat to play on.

The sex machine itself has six vibration patterns to explore and can rotate 360 degrees. Not to mention it can be controlled by the attached LED remote or remotely with Bluetooth.

Get it from Ride the Cowgirl for $1,450 (originally $1,750) or Le Wand for $1,750.

BTW, some reviewers with sensitive skin or eczema really love this lube, and others don't. Remember to always do a test on your arm or leg when it comes to any skin products, or look into this aloe-based lube that has the National Eczema Association Seal of Acceptance!

Promising reviews: "With your partner or solo stroke over the sink, 😍 💪 this is great lube. Works with rear entry or regular penetration. 3rd order. 🫶" —XXX

"This just gave sex a whole new meaning for me. I'm a woman who tends to just naturally get dry after a few rounds, but baby, this right here? Holy grail. It does a good job at not getting sticky and makes the experience 10x more pleasurable. The orgasms were A1!" —Kiha Stowe

Get it from Amazon for $9.99.

Not sure which lube to get? We've got a round-up to help you figure out which lube is right for you.

Promising reviews: "A simple lube with a nice subtly sweet scent. Doesn't taste bad and doesn't need to be reapplied every two seconds unlike other lubes I've tried." —Karen

"I like this lube, the smell is very pleasant and subtle. I haven't noticed any irritation after using it and I am usually very sensitive down there. It's definitely a jelly texture as in it comes out in a big, unmoving blob rather than a liquid that runs and drips everywhere. It threw me off at first but I am seeing the benefit now (less mess)." —Destanye S.

Get it from Unbound for $18 or Amazon for $16.

Promising reviews: "I've tried several lubes and Lola is the best I've found. It stays slick and doesn't require a lot of reapplication. Doesn't irritate the skin, and is unscented as described. Highly recommend." —Deb L.

"Clean-up is a breeze. No sticky residue. Doesn't dry out to quickly, mimicking silicone with reduced collateral to the bed sheets. Viscosity is very nice when applied in moderation. This magic liquid cOmes inside a well thought-out skinny container that has a clever pump cap with a safety locking feature that works to provide no more unintended spills. Travel ready! So glad we found this product." —Barb Crowe

Get it from Amazon for $9.98.

Ylang-ylang gives a delectable scent to this lube that can also be used as a sensual massage oil.

Promising reviews: "Best silicone-safe lube available!!!! It actually last a while while using (that's if you can last as long as me lol). I hate when lube stops being slick and turns to clumps, but this stuff works and keeps on going until you wash it off. I would assume it would be good for people with sensitive areas as well and should make your skin better as it uses natural based oils. It's also safe for your sex toys. Don't use silicone lube on silicone toys, over time the toy will melt or it will degrade to the point that the toy will harbor bacteria and mess you up." —Devlin Marshall

"This is by far the best stuff on the market. All natural and organic oils. Its silky smooth texture and amazing smell won my girl and I over when we received a sample. It's completely multifunctional also. Any extra on my hands that doesn't go to my area or hers goes directly to her butt or hips for a sensual massage. And also there's NO messy cleanup when the fun ends. 5 out of 5. You can't go wrong with this purchase." —Christopher Bialkowski

Get it from Amazon for $10.12+ (available in 2.5-oz. and 4-oz.).

Promising reviews: "I think this is my very first Amazon review and, wow! This is the absolutely best lube I have tried, and I think I have tried them all! I saw this brand Coconu all over Instagram and was excited to see they’re finally on Amazon for free shipping. The good stuff — it is SO moisturizing both externally and internally, absolutely perfect for every type of massage and intimate action. This is a serious game changer, it’s unlike any other of its kind on the market and you can see from the product photos that it’s completely natural!" —Marie

"What a great product. It's a perfect consistency and really makes a difference. I've tried other brands, but I'm so impressed with this one. It's gentle and it's so comforting to know I'm using safe and natural ingredients. So glad to have found this." —RR

Get it from Amazon for $39.99.

The reviews for this post have been edited for length and clarity.